Morning,

I know the title sounds so serious, but chill. It's just a title.

Hey, I'm glad that you are here again!

Let's talk about things that I guarantee all of you have your own story.

Being the youngest person in the family means there are certain privileges, but there are also sometimes when you get the short end of the stick. You will always be known as the youngest child in the family no matter what you do and you seem to always have a chip on your shoulder. Here are my story of being the youngest in the family.

Basically, I am the last child among 3 of us.The eldest is my sister, she is 13 years older than me, while the second child is my brother which is 10 years older than me.

Yes, I know, it's such a long gap between us. It's quite sad actually. At first, when I was an innocent kid, I always blame on my parent for not giving birth to me earlier so that I can join my sibling here and there. But, it's a faith. I need to accept that being the last needs to be tough when it comes to have very "lovely" siblings.

For example, I always get slag by them in front of my friend and the worse was when I was in standard 2 (8 y/o). My parent held a birthday party (just a small one) and invited my near friends. For your information, I was one of the hottest guy in my primary school. I was the head of the prefect y'all!

When all my friends came and my brother was also there. We were happily gathering and chit-chating with each others until a moment. It's literally the worst when you're with your friends and your sibling comes along and embarrasses the hell out of you. He say something like "you know he still wets his bed" to all my friends.

Even though it's not true, your friends will make up a new nickname for you. And yes, I happened to have one and I won't share it here. NEVER! Hahahahahha...

But, sometimes my older sibling will always get the blame for everything
Ah yes, because they're meant to be older and wiser, they will always get the blame. It doesn't matter what it was, I could get away by just pretending to cry in front of your parents and point my finger to any one of them.

So, did you know what I did after they mocking me?
I cried all the night and my brother need to buy me a birthday gift. Easy...
So as the opportunity comes, I demanded a Gundam robot that was a trending stuff at that time tho. Such an obsession. I love my brotha...


p/s: Abang, if you are reading this, please order an Island Tuna pizza hut with stuff crust. make sure you add extra cheese for me, okay. I'm starving. Thanks.

People always say that the youngest child will have more freedom, more love, more passion etc. NO. That was not happening to me at all. I have a very strict parent with a ridiculously strict rules.
Nowadays, the most things that I never regret to be the youngest child is I will never run of clothes. I never seemed to be stuck for clothes I can always just rob some of my siblings clothes if I didn't have any. Plus, if I am broke. I can ask some from them too. Hahahahahah I'm a bad adik.

If I want to share everything that happened between me and my siblings, it wouldn't enough in one or two posts. There is a lot, either sweat or sad. It will always be my best memories.

But, what ever it is. If anyone was giving you stick or calling you names they would always stand up for you. When someone was picking on you in school, or even some wanker, they always came to the rescue. I know that even today, through all the bickering and sibling rivalry they will always have your back. I believe in that.

Now, my sister already has 3 children and my brother has 2 daughters. So, as a very kind and lovely PakSu. I treat them as my own adik. ;')



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Nih chek nak habaq mai nih.. mai mai mai.. dengaq mai..chek ada satu ceqita nak bagitau hampa semua. Haaaa.. dengaq leklok noh!

That is the typical Kedahan accent that I can think out of my mind at this moment. As you know, Kedah is one of the northern states in Malaysia. Quite hot and dry, the average is 32 degree. Yes, we have a lot of paddy field here. A lot doesn't mean more than two or three but I really mean a lot!

I would like to say that the title should be  "The Hustle and Bustle Of Being Kedahan" because yes it is! It's not easy to be a Kedahan. We need to face many challenges in our life, for instance, the haters of our accent. Hahahahahaha...

Kedah accent is not so tame yet not so beast! People used to label Kedahan as "KAHAQ" which means harsh or rough since our accent is a bit stress and bold. I can say that ours is the best because if we want to compare with other north accents like Penang and Perlis, Kedahan speaks in the middle.

We are not too stress like Perlis people such as "Mana khasuit aku?!" and not too soft like Penang people that delay each of their words, for example, "Hang awat nihhhhhhhhhhhhh..." (I don't know when they stop, seriously hehe). But Kedahan stops where they should stop. Just nice! No offense :)

Yes, we have a lot of paddies and that is the only thing that others can imagine when I am saying that I come from Kedah.

Unfortunately, one day I got a different reply from one of my new friends.

He said, "Tak nampak macam orang kedah punnnnnnn..."

Without wasting any time, I replied, "Habis tu, takkan aku nak bawa padi belakang aku baru nak nampak macam orang Kedah kot"

Hahahahhahahaha pang! on your face bro! and the group was exploded with laugh :3

As usually, I speak Keyel here in Melaka. So, when the time I was "salah cakap slang kedah but bunyi keyel". All of my beloved, lovely, clingy, tak guna, haprak, annoying friends pun mula membuat saya rasa macam nak carut-carut :)

For example, Kedahan used to change every word ends with R into Q. So, when I say "Weh, hampaq jap tikar nih" In jiffy, "Tudiaaaaaaaaaaaaa... hampaq tikaq lapaq bakaq kelepaq nyok nyok padi padi padi padi..." If only you understand me. :')

Other than that, Kedah also popular with some special attraction especially Langkawi Island. The abundance of tourist went there every day, either international or local. So, please, I invite you to Kedah and have a great vacation in Langkawi Island.

So, that's is my story of being kedahan. It's kind of special actually when you are different from the other but at the same time, it's kind of annoying ahhahahahaha..

Thanks for reading.

Me feat. sunset at Chenang Beach, Langkawi

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Hey, guys. It has arrived! AND IT'S A GIFT! 
(actually it arrived a week ago. but I delayed this post because I want to wear it first before I give any review on it)

They offer some crazy discount!!!!!!

JAXON: Combined Plimsolls Navy

That's all my story why I'm not blogwalking and updating my blog in the past few day.  All these pictures are only V7 from MMU Melaka. There are 49 more from MMU Cyber actually. 

So thanks to all that came to my blog and also special thanks to ANA SUHANA blog that reviewed me in her post. which is so encouraging. I really appreciate it. 

You can check out what she says about me here ==> 

THANKS FOR MAKING MY BLOG AMERZING

... and anyway, I use filter +6.0 A6, +0.2 brigthness and 0.0 contrast. #VSCOUSER

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So you’re a skinny man and you want to look more buff.

The advice you’ll hear around here is to hit the gym, gain weight, and build muscle. And I concur!

But as a skinny man myself, I know this can take time.

Let’s dig in!

1. Avoid Clothes That Make You Look Frail

The first step in creating a stronger impression is to stop wearing clothes that make you look physically weaker.

And chances are, if you’re a skinny man, you’re wearing such clothes right now. And if not now, I bet you have worn such clothes and probably will again. Frankly, they can be difficult to avoid. But you should still try.

The biggest offenders are over-sized, billowing clothes. Skinny guys often try to hide their frame by wearing larger clothes, thinking they’ll look larger themselves as well.

Wrong. The opposite is true. By wearing clothes that are too large for you, you make yourself look like a skeletal scarecrow.

On the opposite end, you also want to stay clear of skin-tight clothes, since they’ll accentuate your skinny frame just as much. You need to get clothes that fit you just right.

Your clothes should drape over your body, following your frame closely without billowing or stretching anywhere. (Hint: You probably need to take a trip to the tailor from time to time to get clothes taken in.)

You should also pay special attention to your shoulders and sleeves. The shoulder seam should sit at your shoulder’s edge. When it sits past that edge, you give the illusion that you’re slumping. And if your sleeves are too roomy (pirate-sleeve syndrome), you look like you don’t have big enough arms to fill them out.

Similarly, t-shirts with large sleeves can make your arms look like spaghetti strings (see left image below). Try and find t-shirts that fit somewhat tight around the arm. (You can also roll them up a bit, James Dean style, if you like that look. Just don’t roll them all the way up your shoulder. A little goes a long way.)

Skinny jeans and tapered legs can make your legs look like sticks. Avoid them too (if you weren’t already doing so).

And avoid wearing large accessories. No bulky watches or wide ties. Keep your accessories proportionate to your frame. You don’t want the face of your watch to cover your entire wrist.

Just by fixing these little issues, you’ll already be making a huge difference. But you can do a lot more.

Did you know you can instantly make yourself appear more buff by wearing one specific item?

I’m talking about a jacket — and not your everyday windbreaker. I’m talking about a suit jacket, sports coat, or blazer.

These jackets are designed to accentuate the male form, making you look more muscular.

How?

Well, first off, they broaden your shoulders. Most of these jackets have padding that create a sharper edge where your shoulder normally starts to slump down. This padding can add about half an inch on each side. And while that might not seem like much, you’d be surprised what a difference it can make.

You want to go for light padding though. Be careful not to get a jacket with padding that’s too large for you. It should be subtle, not over the top.

Choosing the right fabric is another easy way to add some visual bulk.

Textured fabrics, for instance, give the illusion of having more mass than smooth ones. So look for fabrics like:

Everything that looks a bit rougher to the touch will suggest you have more bodily mass than you do.

Besides textures, you should also look at the thickness of your knitted clothes.

Chunky, thick knits have become quite popular in recent years, particularly in fall and winter, which are seasons they’re obviously more suited for. So besides lightweight wool, you should also have some thick-knit sweaters or cardigans in your wardrobe for casual wear.

Hey! Check out my previous post about this! 
=======>  3 must have cardigan for men Zalora

In Malaysia, it's quite hot and you’ll rarely wear more than a tee or lightweight shirt in casual settings.

For instance, you might wear lighter colors like white, beige, or pastels. Many people know that darker colors slim you down, but few know that lighter colors have the opposite effect. 

This is also why rooms with lighter walls feel like they are spacier than same-sized rooms with darker walls.

5. And what about patterns?

Wearing a t-shirt with horizontal stripes can make your chest look larger and your shoulders broader. Because the stripes will be wider on your upper torso due to your sleeves, this helps accentuate your V-shape.

But that’s not your only option.

Checks and boxes can also add visual heft to your body, much in the same way that textures do. The smaller the scale of the pattern, the more it increases your visual heft and the stronger it makes you look.

So generally, you want to go for medium-to-small patterns like (micro-)gingham, graph checks, or tattersal. (Large plaids work too, but have a more subtle effect.)

You don’t have to be physically strong to show your strength of character, strength of leadership, or strength of mind. Such qualities are quite hard to transmit when meeting someone for the first time though.

We all know we subconsciously judge people based on their outward appearance, whether we like to admit it or not. So you also know that people make assumptions about you based on their first impression.

That’s why you should have a strong outward presentation to match your inner strengths.

*I’m thinking of selling these online in my blog. Should I? Hehehehhe..